RMS Titanic
In the spring of 1912, Arthur took Ryerson, their youngest son and two of their daughters on a vacation to France and stayed in a house in Versailles. Their holiday was however cut short when the family received the news that their oldest son and Yale student Arthur Larned Ryerson Jr had died in a car accident on 8 April 1912 in Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania.[4] Arthur immediately ended the vacation and booked first-class passage for himself, Ryerson, and three of their children—Suzette, Emily, and John—on the first America bound steamer he could find. He booked ticket number 17608 at the cost of £262 7s 6d on the RMS Titanic, which was to set out on its maiden voyage. They boarded Titanic in Cherbourg, France on 10 April 1912. Ryerson also brought her maid Victorine Chaudanson and her youngest son's governess Grace Scott Bowen on board. The group occupied first class cabins B57, B63 and B66.
On the afternoon of April 14, 1912, fellow passenger Marian Longstreth Thayer invited Ryerson for a walk. It was the first time she had been on the boat deck in public. After nearly an hour they settled into deck chairs outside the aft staircase of 'A' deck to watch the sunset. White Star official, J. Bruce Ismay, joined them and told them about the ice warning from the Baltic. At 11:40 pm, Titanic struck an iceberg and began to sink. Ryerson was awake when the ship hit the iceberg. She woke Arthur, Suzette, Emily, John, Grace, and Victorine.
"[The maid's] door was locked and I had some difficulty in waking her. By this time my husband was fully dressed, and we could hear the noise of feet tramping on the deck overhead. He was quite calm and cheerful and helped me put the lifebelts on the children and on my maid. I was paralyzed with fear of not all getting on deck together in time, as there were seven of us. I would not let my younger daughter, [Emily], dress, but she only put on a fur coat, as I did over her nightgown."[5]
Ryerson and her family went to 'A' deck, where the lifeboats were being prepared to be launched, and stood there for "fully half an hour". She, Suzette, Emily, Victorine and Grace stepped into Lifeboat 4 at 1:50 am. John was initially not allowed in; however, Arthur stepped forward and told Second Officer Charles Lightoller (who was loading the boat): "Of course, that boy goes with his mother. He is only 13." After this, John was allowed to join his family but Arthur had to stay behind.[5]
After his family had safely departed in lifeboat 4, Arthur headed for the First-Class smoking room. He was seen there by Archibald Gracie IV at 2:00 am playing cards with Clarence Moore, Major Archibald Butt and Francis Millet at their usual table. After the men finished their game, they all shook hands and departed back to the boat deck. The Titanic sank by 2:20 am and Arthur perished in the icy waters that night along with 1,500 other people, including 117 other first-class men.[6] His body, if recovered, was never identified.[7] A memorial was set up alongside the graves of his wife and cildren in Lakewood Cemetery in Cooperstown, New York.[8]
While in the lifeboat, Ryerson witnessed the ship break in half. They were rescued by RMS Carpathia at about 8:00 am on the 15th. Ryerson, Suzette, Emily, John, Victorine, and Grace were rescued by Carpathia by 8 am, and taken to New York City on 18 April 1912.
