Girls at Dhabas is a multi-city feminist initiative in Pakistan that raises a conversation on women’s access to public space. Dhabas is a local term for roadside tea-shops that are traditionally male-dominated domains in South Asia. The efforts went viral in 2015 [1] and gained significant traction from women across South Asia who were encouraged to photograph themselves at dhabas and upload the pictures on social media using the hashtag #girlsatdhabas, sharing their personal narratives, reflections and stories re-examining their relationship with public space.[2] The viral campaign led to organized gatherings and offline events, from cricket playing in the streets, bike rallies in Karachi, Lahore, and Islamabad, and various community-building dialogues.[3]

Background

The collective began in 2015. Sadia Khatri[4] photographed herself at a dhaba and then uploaded the image on the Internet. Sensing that this could become a larger, urgent conversation challenging the traditional role of women in public spaces, she teamed up with her friends Natasha Ansari,[5] Sabahat Zakariya, Najia Sabahat Khan, Amna Chaudhry, Mehrbano Raja, Sanayah Malik, Yusra Amjad and Sara Nisar and launched Tumblr and Facebook online pages for the growing community.

Access to public space

According to Themrise Khan [6]

Other Initiatives

#GirlsPlayingStreetCricket and #GirlsOnBikes Campaigns

In 2015, based on Natasha Ansari’s suggestion to expand efforts to cricket and cycling, Girls at Dhabas launched the #GirlsPlayingStreetCricket initiative through which women were encouraged to play cricket outside in the streets.[7] Street cricket is a popular form of physical activity amongst the Pakistani youth.

In 2016, a woman named Aneeqa Ali was harassed and injured while riding her bicycle out in Lahore, Pakistan.[8] In response to this incident and as an act of condemnation and solidarity, Girls at Dhabas organized a bike rally (which became an annual event) Girls on Bikes aimed at encouraging women to embrace cycling and two-wheeler transportation, which continues to be taboo for women.[9] In Lahore, Noor Rahman joined the Girls at Dhabas chapters and organized weekly bike rides following the rally.

Behenchara

The word commonly used to express 'solidarity' in Urdu is 'bhaichara' (literally brotherhood). Girls at Dhabas coined the term ‘behenchara’ (sisterhood) as a spin on the original. By reframing the word 'bhaichara,' Girls at Dhabas aims to claim language and the vernacular to articulate a vision of a broader feminist solidarity, radically re-imagining traditional gender relations through the lens of sisterhood and collectivism.

Behanchara Diaries

In 2017, Safieh Shah and Zehra Naqvi, members of Girls at Dhabas, founded a podcast series called "Behanchara Diaries". The podcast features five episodes and explores feminism, intersectionality, the politics of public spaces and more.[10] The podcast currently streams on Patari, Pakistan’s biggest music streaming service.[11]

Aurat March

In 2018, members of Girls at Dhabas helped co-organize the "Aurat March", a feminist rally to honor International Women's Day, celebrated on 8 March annually. In Lahore, Girls at Dhabas was one of the organizing groups of the Aurat March, along with The Feminist Collective, The Women’s Collective, and others. In Karachi, members were part of the Aurat March in their individual capacities since the organizing committee was unaffiliated with any groups

Criticism

Girls at Dhabas attracted criticism after the #GirlsOnBikes movement from social media users who were against the idea of women claiming public spaces.[12]

See also

References

  1. ^ "Girls at Dhabas: challenging issues of safety, or 'respectability' in urban Pakistan?". openDemocracy.
  2. ^ Editor, T. N. S. (13 September 2015). "Girls at Dhabas: A much-needed campaign". TNS - The News on Sunday.CS1 maint: extra text: authors list (link)
  3. ^ Amjad, Farah (20 March 2019). "Making #MeToo Work in Pakistan". The New Republic.
  4. ^ "Meet Sadia Khatri: Karachi's Chai Rebel". Daily Times. 12 October 2017.
  5. ^ "Pakistani women use selfies to reclaim tea stalls". Women in the World. 10 February 2019.
  6. ^ Khan, Themrise. "Women and a safe space". www.thenews.com.pk. Retrieved 2021-03-04.
  7. ^ "BOWLED OVER | ePaper | DAWN.COM". epaper.dawn.com.
  8. ^ Staff, Images (19 December 2018). "Like every other year, 2018 was the year of male rage". Images.
  9. ^ "Global Voices - #GirlsOnBikes: Women Ride Bicycles To Reclaim Public Spaces in Pakistan". Global Voices. 12 April 2018.
  10. ^ Kumar, Shikha. "Behanchara Diaries: Pakistani feminists have a new podcast, and it's calling all the desi ladies". Scroll.in.
  11. ^ "BehanChara Diaries". Patari.
  12. ^ "Global Voices - #GirlsOnBikes: Women Ride Bicycles To Reclaim Public Spaces in Pakistan". Global Voices. 12 April 2018.