Mrinalini Devi
Mrinalini Devi
Born
Bhabatarini Roy Choudhury

1 March 1874
Dakshindihi, Bengal, British India
Died23 November 1902 (aged 28)
Jorasanko Thakur Bari, Bengal, British India
NationalityBritish Indian
Spouse
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(m. 1883)​
Children5, including Rathindranath Tagore

Mrinalini Devi (1 March 1874[1][2] – 23 November 1902[3]) was a translator and the wife of Nobel laureate poet, philosopher, author and musician Rabindranath Tagore. She was from the Jessore district, where her father worked at the Tagore estate. In 1883, at the age of nine, she married Tagore.

Early life

Mrinalini Devi was born to Benimadhob Roy Choudhury and Dakshayoni at Phultala village, in the then Jessore of Bengal Presidency in British India (now in Khulna, Bangladesh). Her exact date of birth is not known. According to one estimate of a biographer, she was born on 1 March 1874.[4] Another gave her birth as 1872.[1] Before her marriage, Mrinalini Devi was known as Bhabatarini. However, it is unknown whether it was her formal name or nickname. She studied until Class I in the local village school.[4] Her father worked at the Tagore estate.[5]

Marriage to Rabindranath Tagore

Mrinalini Devi with Rabindranath Tagore, c. 1883

The paka dekha, a ritual in which members of the groom's family come to see the bride, was performed by Rabindranath Tagore’s elder brother Jyotirindranath Tagore, his sisters-in-law Jnanadanandini Devi and Kadambari Devi, and Rabindranath's nephew Surendranath Tagore. Although it is known that Rabindranath accompanied his family members from Jashore to Mrinalini Devi’s house, it is not known whether he participated in the ritual.[4][6]

Unlike traditional marriage which takes place in the bride's house, Mrinalini Devi married Rabindranath Tagore at the Maharshi Bhavan in the Jorasanko Thakur Bari, in Calcutta (present-day Kolkata) at the wish of Rabindranath's father Devendranath Tagore. The marriage took place according to the rituals of the Brahmo Samaj. At the time of marriage she was 9 and Tagore was twenty-two years of age. They married on 24 Agrahayana 1290 in the Bengali calendar which is roughly 9 December 1883 in Gregorian calendar.[4][5]

After her marriage, Rabindranath gave her the name "Mrinalini". Tagore biographers assume that the name was designed to rhyme with "Nalini", a name he had fondly assigned to Annapurna Turkhad (daughter of Atmaram Pandurang), who was his former love-interest.[4][5][7]

Mrinalini Devi was not forced to do the household chores immediately after her marriage. Devendranath admitted her and Hemendranath Tagore's wife Kshinatanu to the Loreto House school to teach them English. He also bought them books, slates and school uniforms. After studying at the school for one year, Rabindranath appointed Pandit Herambachandra Bidyaratna, a home tutor, to teach her Sanskrit. His elder brother Birendranath's son Balendranath taught her English, Bengali and Sanskrit literature. Mark Twain became her favourite author.[4] According to the diary of her younger daughter Mira, one incident is noted as:

A table lamp is burning in the second floor veranda of Shantiniketan. There is an English novel in my mother's hands. She is reading it and translating it to my grandmother.[4]

Mrinalini Devi translated the Shanti Parva of the Mahabharata and Katha Upanishad. The Katha Upanishad is currently kept at the Visva-Bharati University. Besides these, she also participated in the dramas which took place at the Thakur Bari. In the first ever dramatization of Raja o Rani, she acted in the role of Narayani.[4]

In 1902, Rabindranath established Brahmacharya Ashram, a school in Shantiniketan. Mrinalini Devi sold off most of her wedding jewellery to fund this school.[4][8]

Children

On 25 October 1886, Mrinalini Devi gave birth to her first child, a daughter named Madhurilata and nicknamed Bela.[4] In 1888, she gave birth to a son, Rathindranath. In 1891, she gave birth to a daughter, Renuka, and three years later, she gave birth to another daughter, Mira. In 1896, her youngest child Shamindranath was born.[4]

Death

By the middle of 1902, Mrinalini Devi became seriously ill. Subsequently, she and Rabindranath moved from Shantiniketan to Calcutta on 12 September. Doctors failed to diagnose her disease and she died the night of 23 November.[4]

Image

According to contemporary records, Mrinalini Devi was a woman with great personality.[4]

References

  1. ^ a b Stephanie Olsen (6 October 2015). Childhood, Youth and Emotions in Modern History: National, Colonial and Global Perspectives. Palgrave Macmillan UK. p. 287. ISBN 978-1-137-48484-0.
  2. ^ Accessions List, India. Library of Congress Office. 1975.
  3. ^ K. S. Bharathi (1998). Encyclopaedia of Eminent Thinkers. Concept Publishing Company. p. 13. ISBN 978-81-7022-687-1.
  4. ^ a b c d e f g h i j k l m মৃণালিনী [Mrinalini] (in Bengali). Anandabazar Patrika. 22 October 2016. Archived from the original on 31 May 2019. Retrieved 31 May 2019.
  5. ^ a b c রবীন্দ্রনাথের জীবনে মৃণালিনী [Mrinalini in Rabindranath’s life] (in Bengali). Dainik Janakantha. 27 January 2017. Archived from the original on 31 May 2019. Retrieved 31 May 2019.
  6. ^ কবিগুরুর বিয়ের গল্প [The story of Kabiguru’s marriage] (in Bengali). Rising BD. 10 September 2015. Archived from the original on 31 May 2019. Retrieved 31 May 2019.
  7. ^ "Who Was 'Nalini', The Marathi Girl Rabindranath Tagore Once Fell in Love With". The Better India. 5 July 2018. Retrieved 30 July 2019.
  8. ^ পাতা:চিঠিপত্র (প্রথম খণ্ড)-রবীন্দ্রনাথ ঠাকুর.pdf/২০১ - উইকিসংকলন একটি মুক্ত পাঠাগার. bn.wikisource.org (in Bengali). Retrieved 30 July 2019.
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