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Play date or playdate is an expression, primarily used in the United States, for an arranged appointment for children to meet and play.[1] It should not be confused with dating as there is no implied romantic component.

Children playing while an adult watches in the background
Children playing while an adult watches in the background

Play dates have become common[when?] because the work schedules for busy parents, along with media warnings about leaving children unattended,[example needed] prevent the kind of play that children of other generations[which?] participated in.

Play dates are also arranged by destinations that feature child-friendly programs like museums, parks, or playgrounds.[example needed]

The intention of a play date is to give children time to interact freely in a less structured environment than other planned activities might provide. Play dates are different from organized activities or scheduled sports, because they usually lack structure, rules, and plans.

Play dates are becoming[when?] part of the vernacular of popular culture and form a part of children's "down time." Most parents[who?] prefer children to use these hours to form friendships by playing with other children either one-on-one or within small groups. When children are very young, most parents[who?] stay for the play date and use the time to form their own friendships and parental alliances.[citation needed]


  1. ^ "Play Date Etiquette Explained".