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"When All Is Said and Done"
ABBA - When All Is Said And Done.jpg
Single by ABBA
from the album The Visitors
B-side"Should I Laugh or Cry"
Released31 December 1981 (U.S.)
Recorded16–19 March 1981 at Polar Music Studios; finished 14 November 1981
GenrePop, europop
LabelAtlantic (U.S.)
Songwriter(s)Benny Andersson
Björn Ulvaeus
Producer(s)Benny Andersson
Björn Ulvaeus
ABBA singles chronology
"One of Us"
"When All Is Said and Done"
"Head over Heels"
"No Hay a Quien Culpar"
El Salvador single
El Salvador single
Music video
"When All Is Said and Done" on YouTube

"When All Is Said and Done" is a song recorded in 1981 by Swedish pop group ABBA, and is featured on the group's eighth studio album, The Visitors. The track – with lead vocals by Anni-Frid Lyngstad – was released as a single in the United States (with the non-album track "Should I Laugh or Cry" as the B-side) on 31 December 1981 on Atlantic 3889, and reached No. 27 on the US Billboard Hot 100 in March 1982.


ABBA consisted of two married couples who later divorced. Similar to the group's 1980 track, "The Winner Takes It All", which could have been influenced by the split between band members Björn Ulvaeus and Agnetha Fältskog, "When All Is Said and Done" detailed the divorce between Anni-Frid Lyngstad and Benny Andersson.

Written during a time of emotional turmoil, Ulvaeus has admitted that the split between Benny and Frida was at the back of his mind during the songwriting process for "When All Is Said and Done". He sought approval from Benny and Frida before the group began working with the song. When recording began in March 1981, only one month had passed since their separation.[1]

"When All Is Said and Done" saw Frida giving words and emotions detailing all of her sorrow and pain, not only for herself, but for all of those who had been through a separation. The backing track the group had first recorded was completely changed after Frida had laid down her powerful and emotional vocals. As Frida herself later recalled: "All my sadness was captured in that song."

ABBA also recorded a Spanish version of "When All Is Said and Done" (entitled "No Hay a Quien Culpar"), which was released as a single in Mexico and several South American countries. The Spanish title written by Buddy and Mary McCluskey translates as "There Is No One to Blame". The track was also slightly remixed, for example leaving out the double-tracked snare drum of the original English version and adding new synth overdubs, giving the song a warmer feeling than the original version. The Spanish interpretation reached No. 29 in Mexico.

Music video

In August 1981, a music video was filmed to promote the song, directed by Lasse Hallström. Parts of the video that feature Lyngstad by the sea were filmed in the Stockholm archipelago.[2] The scenes where the other ABBA members appear were filmed in Stockholm. ABBA also filmed a video for "No Hay a Quien Culpar", the Spanish version of the song, in October 1981. This interpretation is an almost exact copy of the English version, the only difference being Frida's new hairstyle. As a result, with parts of the English version of the video being featured in the Spanish clip, "No Hay a Quien Culpar" includes both of Frida's different hairstyles.[3]


Although most countries released the track "One of Us" as the first single from The Visitors in December 1981, ABBA's American record label, Atlantic Records, instead opted for "When All Is Said and Done". It was a modest hit for the group in the US, peaking at No. 27 on the Billboard Hot 100; ABBA's 14th and final US Top 40 hit to date.[4]

The track reached No. 10 on the Adult Contemporary chart, giving the group their eighth and final Top 10 hit, and also charted on the Billboard Dance/Disco chart, reaching No. 8.[5]

"When All Is Said and Done" also achieved particular success in Canada, peaking at No. 4 on the Adult Contemporary chart in March 1982 (and spending nine weeks on the chart).[6]

"When All is Said and Done" was also released as a single in Australia (with the album track "Soldiers" as the B-side). A minor hit there, the song peaked at No. 81.[7]


Chart (1982) Peak
Australia (Kent Music Report)[7] 81
Canada Adult Contemporary (RPM)[6] 4
US Billboard Hot 100[4] 27
US Adult Contemporary (Billboard)[8] 10
US Dance Club Songs (Billboard)[5] 8

Mamma Mia!

"When All Is Said and Done" was included in the 2008 film version of the ABBA musical, Mamma Mia!, performed by Sam Carmichael (played by Pierce Brosnan), with one line – "slightly worn but dignified, and not too old for sex" – also sung by Meryl Streep. The song is substantially different from the original release, not only in that it has been reworked into a ballad but also that a new second verse was written by Björn Ulvaeus specifically for the movie soundtrack and added to the song's original lyrics as recorded by ABBA:

"It's been there in my dreams, the scene I see unfold
True at last, flesh and blood, to cherish and to hold
Careless fools will suffer, yes, I know and I confess:
Once I lost my way when something good had just begun
Lesson learned – it's history – when all is said and done"

In the context of the movie, the lyrics also take on an entirely different meaning: as opposed to the original which describes a couple going their separate ways, it portrays two lovers finding their way back to each other and rekindling their romance. The song is sung when Sam decides to propose to Donna after he confesses to marrying another woman and then divorcing her; Donna ultimately accepts.

Cover versions


  1. ^ "In Focus: When All is Said and Done - the Lost Hit Single". 13 June 2012. Retrieved 10 June 2018.
  2. ^ "Rafaels and Stefans pictures". 29 August 1981. Retrieved 25 October 2016.
  3. ^ ABBA: No Hay A Quien Culpar. Retrieved 10 June 2018.
  4. ^ a b "ABBA Chart History (Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved 7 October 2021.
  5. ^ a b "ABBA Chart History (Dance Club Songs)". Billboard. Retrieved 7 October 2021.
  6. ^ a b "Top RPM Adult Contemporary: Issue 0470." RPM. Library and Archives Canada. Retrieved 7 October 2021.
  7. ^ a b David Kent (2006). Australian Charts Book 1993—2005. Australian Chart Book Pty Ltd, Turramurra, N.S.W. p. 10. ISBN 978-0-646-45889-2.
  8. ^ "ABBA Chart History (Adult Contemporary)". Billboard. Retrieved 7 October 2021.
  9. ^ "Reviews". Retrieved 4 January 2012.