Rules

Different RfCs have been run in different ways, but there are a few hard and fast rules:

Guidelines

Reconciliation is the aim of RFC/U, not revenge or sanction

Once a User Conduct RfC has been opened and certified, other editors can take a look and offer comments, either by posting their own view, or endorsing someone else's view.

The following represents the guidelines formed by general practice. These are not policies or "rules", but advice on how most RfCs are run:

For more information on how previous RfCs have been run, see Wikipedia:Requests for comment/User conduct/Archive.

If you're the subject of an RFC/U[edit]

If you can keep your head...

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise...

Rudyard Kipling, If—

Don't react emotionally or in haste. There's no getting away from it: being the subject of an RfC/U is usually unpleasant. By definition, you've already been in one or more disputes with the user or users, and now things have escalated—and perhaps you think that they're the ones who should be the subject of an RfC/U! Well, perhaps. Take a deep breath and follow these directions.

Uncertified RfC/U

Certified RfC/U