Consulting deleting admin

WP:DRVPURPOSE says: Deletion review should not be used: ... 2. when you have not discussed the matter with the user who closed the discussion first, unless there is a substantial reason not to do this and you have explained the reason in your nomination;

However the DRV instructiosn say: Consider attempting to discuss the matter with the closer as this could resolve the matter more quickly. ... (emphasis added.) Recently several DRVs have been started without consulting the cloer, and in each case ther has been a suggestyion to speedy close the discussion for this failure. It hasn't been done, but it could have been. So it seems to em that we should:

  1. Decide if consulting the closer before coming to DRV must be attempted or not, and
  2. Revise either the instructions or the purpose item to be consistent with the decision.

I could accept either way, but it is unfair and often bitey to scold people for following the instructions as written. So which is it to be? DES (talk)DESiegel Contribs 20:21, 7 July 2020 (UTC)

Drop the word "must". Write in simple imperative: Ask the closer about your concern.
Add to the DRV links the WP:MR styled "(Discussion with closer)" link. This provides the good example in existing reviews, and encourages best practice in the future, without the need to write rules and enforce that the rules are read and followed. It works. Newcomers, I believe, pay more attention to preceding examples than to the lengthy instructions. When the "(Discussion with closer)" link is redlinked, regulars should ping the closer, and should not bite the newcomer.
If a good faith DRV nomination is listed, do not close it due to failure to follow a rule. cf WP:IAR.
--SmokeyJoe (talk) 01:52, 8 July 2020 (UTC)
I'd drop the "explaine why" clause, which is excessive. I suspect most bad deletions are accidents or oversights, and more easily resolved with the closing admin, so that's usually wise. But if someone has a reason not to, then we should trust they're acting in good faith too, until proven otherwise. WilyD 06:55, 8 July 2020 (UTC)

Proposal - limiting use of WP:XFDCloser to those on a list, similar to WP:AFC tool user list

Notice: Discussion is taking place at Wikipedia talk:Non-admin closure#Proposal - limiting use of WP:XFDCloser to those on a list, similar to WP:AFC tool user list (permalink). davidwr/(talk)/(contribs) 17:30, 23 September 2020 (UTC)