Consensual non-monogamy (CNM), also known as ethical non-monogamy (ENM), is an umbrella term for relationships in which all partners give explicit consent to engage in romantic, intimate, and/or sexual relationships with multiple people.[1] Consensual non-monogamy differs from infidelity by the knowledge and consent of those involved, and from polygamy by the various partners not being in a single marriage. Common forms of consensual non-monogamy include swinging, polyamory, and open relationships.[2][3]

Consensual non-monogamy can take many different forms, depending on the needs and preferences of the individuals involved in specific relationships. In two surveys in 2013 and 2014, one fifth of surveyed single United States adults had, at some point in their lives, engaged in some sort of consensual non-monogamy.[4]

It is common for swinging and open couples to maintain emotional monogamy while engaging in extra-dyadic sexual relations.[5] Similarly, the friend/partner boundary in forms of consensual non-monogamy other than polyamory is typically fairly clear. Unlike other forms of non-monogamy, though, "polyamory is notable for privileging emotional intimacy with others."[6] Polyamory is distinguished from some other forms of ethical non-monogamy in that the relationships involved are loving intimate relationships, as opposed to purely sexual relationships.[6]

References

  1. ^ Moors, Amy C.; Ramos, Ashley; Schechinger, Heath (March 2023). "Bridging the science communication gap: The development of a fact sheet for clinicians and researchers about consensually nonmonogamous relationships". Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity. 10 (1): 166–174. doi:10.1037/sgd0000487. ISSN 2329-0390.
  2. ^ Thomae, Manuela (November 2014). "Sexuality and gender for mental health professionals: a practical guide Christina Richards and Meg Barker". Feminism & Psychology. 24 (4): 560–562. doi:10.1177/0959353514539425. ISSN 0959-3535.
  3. ^ Rubel, Alicia N.; Bogaert, Anthony F. (2015-11-22). "Consensual Nonmonogamy: Psychological Well-Being and Relationship Quality Correlates". The Journal of Sex Research. 52 (9): 961–982. doi:10.1080/00224499.2014.942722. ISSN 0022-4499.
  4. ^ Haupert, M. L.; Gesselman, Amanda N.; Moors, Amy C.; Fisher, Helen E.; Garcia, Justin R. (2017-07-04). "Prevalence of Experiences With Consensual Nonmonogamous Relationships: Findings From Two National Samples of Single Americans". Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy. 43 (5): 424–440. doi:10.1080/0092623X.2016.1178675. ISSN 0092-623X. PMID 27096488. S2CID 6855648.
  5. ^ Barker, Meg; Langdridge, Darren (2012). Understanding non-monogamies. New York: Routledge. p. 71. ISBN 9780415652964. OCLC 574760499, 1107788606. Swinging: Pushing the Boundaries of Monogamy?
  6. ^ a b Brunning, Luke (2018). "The Distinctiveness of Polyamory". Journal of Applied Philosophy. 35 (3): 15–16. doi:10.1111/japp.12240. ISSN 0264-3758. S2CID 147982689.

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