| Kidnapping of the Bibas family | |
|---|---|
| Part of Israel–Hamas war | |
 Shiri Bibas with her 9-month and 4-year-old sons Kfir and Ariel | |
| Location | Nir Oz, Israel |
| Date | 7 October 2023 |
Attack type | Kidnapping, mass murder |
| Deaths | 4 |
| Perpetrator | Hamas |
On 7 October 2023, as part of the 2023 Hamas-led attack on Israel and the Nir Oz massacre, the Palestinian Islamist militant organization Hamas abducted the Israeli-Argentinian/Peruvian[1][2] Bibas (Hebrew: ביבס) family from the Nir Oz kibbutz.[3][4] The youngest child, baby Kfir, was the youngest hostage taken in the October 7 attacks.[5] Shiri's parents, abducted from their kibbutz, were later found murdered.[6] Amidst widespread concern and a campaign for their release, the Israeli Defense Forces (IDF) said that Hamas transferred the family to a different Palestinian terror group within Gaza.[7] Efforts to release Shiri and her children during a ceasefire between Israel and Hamas were unsuccessful; Hamas later claimed that they were killed as a result of an Israeli airstrike in Khan Yunis.
The Bibas (Hebrew: ביבס) family were abducted from the Nir Oz kibbutz: 9-month-old Kfir (Hebrew: כפיר), 4-year-old Ariel (Hebrew: אריאל), 32-year-old mother Shiri (Hebrew: שירי; née Silberman), and her 34-year-old husband Yarden (Hebrew: ירדן).[3][4] Reportedly prior to the attack the family had been debating leaving the kibbutz and looking to move to the Golan Heights, as they were tired of the constant fear and the proximity to Gaza and the rockets.[8]
On the day of the attack, Yarden Bibas was reportedly texting with his sister to update her on the status of fighting at and around the Nir Oz Kibbutz.[9] At around 6:30 am he sent her an update which included rocket fire, and then that the militants had entered the kibbutz with concern that his children did not know how to keep quiet. By about 9:45 he sent "They're in" shortly after having sent "I love you" to his family.[8] Yarden had reportedly first believed that the rocket fire was "just another bombing" and had hesitated to use the gun in the home due to the number of militants with automatic weapons.[10]
Multiple pieces of media of the family were circulated online, such as, a video of Shiri holding her redheaded children in her arms, with a look of terror on her face as she was surrounded by militants. Multiple pictures found later showed Yarden, on the day of the attack, bleeding from the head, and being herded away by gunmen.[8][11]
Shiri's father José Luis (Yossi) Silberman, and his wife Margit Shnaider Silberman, were also presumed to be missing from the kibbutz. Margit Shnaider Silberman moved from Peru 15 years ago. José Luis (Yossi) Silberman was from Argentina, both were in their 60s. The Silbermans were later found dead and officially identified as deceased on 21 October.[12][11]
Shiri and her children were expected to be released in the multi-day ceasefire agreement between Israel and Hamas that started on 24 November. Israel considered it a violation of the framework that they were not released.[13] After the brothers were not freed during the temporary ceasefire, their relatives launched a campaign demanding their release.[11] On 29 November, Hamas' armed wing, the Al Qassam Brigades, said Shiri and her children had been killed in Israeli airstrikes.[14] Israel said, that Hamas' claims aren't verified, and warned they could be psychological warfare.[15][16] A hostage released during the multi-day ceasefire alleged that she and another hostage were approached by Hamas members and ordered to tell Yarden that his family had been killed by IDF bombing. When she refused the militants ordered the other hostage to translate while they told Yarden, and filmed his reaction where he was allegedly coached to blame Netanyahu.[17]
IDF chief spokesperson said, regarding the family's location, that the IDF did not believe the boys and their mother were in the hands of Hamas[15] but they consistently refused to name any other group, saying only "another group". A cousin of the Bibas family raised a request to speak with US President Joe Biden, Egyptian President Abdel Fattah El-Sisi and Qatar's Emir Tamim bin Hamad Al Thani, to petition them to help in the release of the family. He also mentioned that they were working with the Argentinian government to help petition for the release of the family.[2] In early December 2023 per Foreign Minister Eli Cohen, all Israeli embassies and consulates either lit their buildings in orange or displayed images of the family. The display was supposed to coincide with the first lighting of Hanukkah candles.[18]
